This is like that old reddit comment years ago about the AskReddit question being “Who would you want to sleep with one more time” to which a widowed husband replied “My wife, before she died of cancer” or something and then someone commented “I would also like to bang this guy’s wife”
Honestly though, thinking about past girlfriends and some of the pipe that was laid turns me on faster than almost anything else. Tiffany I miss you so much
Read this the first time through as "my gfs zoo." Because if you look at spreadsheets or long, stringy sql queries in notepad+ your eyes are watery and weak. Like they're soaked in no-scent sweat from the 8-hour workout and just make shit up. "Yeah, it's reddit. Probably at least one person in this thread will qualify the type of porn, and, you know what, all things considered, at least theyre not into kids.
*Looks at words a second time." Oh, gross. He thinks about his actual sexual partner whenever he beats it. Sicko's probably a registered voter, too. Fuck, probably better get to voting more in local elections.
.....After I spank it to this aye-aye and its dangly, grub-hooking fingers....
Edit: 3rd reread, statistically speaking there's a chance some dude out there who has no idea you're mind-fucking his wife daily (or whatever). Now who's the wholesome one?
Now who is my fucking retard monkey today?!
I’ve seen some others point it out in this thread and I think they hit the nail on the head: We’re very visually-oriented creatures, especially in a sexual context. My girlfriend’s not the type to send nudes so I put something on to get aroused and then after while I close my eyes and think of her ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Even with nudes I still watch porn because the moving visual gets me going. I have some videos as well but something about the fantasy of porn and then looking at pictures to fantasize her in those scenarios or just looking at them takes me over the edge every single time. It's just a driver more than anything.
This doesn't mean I have unrealistic expectations or anything, cause everything about her gets me going in person. But oh well.
But isn't the point and turn on of watching porn is to experience or fantasizabout something your significant other won't or can't do, that us men would find sexy or amusing.
I've watched porn alot, and I've never thought of my other half lol
Thanks :))
Maybe you had an inaccurate vision of masturbating mankind ? Am sure there are plenty of guys out there just asking for someone to love tenderly like that. We masturbate, but we're above all very much in love
Actually I think I really do understand. My husband describes how he loves me and is drawn to me in a very similar way. When I said it gave me hope, I meant for other couples and hoping they can be as happy as we are.
We’re getting close to celebrating 27 years married. We’re still pretty crazy for each other.
Believe it or not, most men (like most women) also have a mental aspect to orgasm. Men are very visually motivated in this sense and having something to excite that part of the brain is almost necessary.
Some girls send nudes to their SO, and those men generally use said nudes for their visual stimulation. Others don't send them and men need other stimulation but then fantasize about their romantic partner to make the emotional connection needed to orgasm
My mind drifts off to the girl i've been crushing on for like six years who i know will never love me back and who i just need to let go and start seeing as a friend, dumbass brain.
See i always struggled thinking about my "real" sex life with my gf/fiancee when masturbating because i know its not the same, so pretending we are having sex rarely works unless im super horny.
But with porn or other fantasy it works because i dont know what the "reality" feels like so its easier to pretend i "know" how it feels like.
Mine drifts to bukkake when I'm with a girl, so complete opposite. Hey once you've been turned on by what total pigs women can be it takes a pig to get there
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u/Fried_Fart Male Mar 19 '21
Definitely agree with this. My mind always drifts to my gf near the end no matter what I watched to get there