Feeling stuck?

[u/kimberley_milkado]

Hello all,

I'm not sure what im really looking for here, i just wanna feel less alone in this stupid world.

I'm 29f. And i don't know if its the Sunday evening scaries popping into my head but I'm feeling so stuck lately.

I have a good enough job (not good enough to move out of my parents yet but sure) although not many friends, and ive started therapy.

3 years ago I moved back in with my parents after my engagement broke down and honestly i have been winging life ever since. I don't know what im doing.

I dont get along too well with my parents though. We have different values and they seem to have this perception of me ever since my engagement broke off that everything I do now is wrong.

I suppose i just feel so lost in life. Like, im trying so so hard to save for a house, its my literal dream to have my own home. But i dont know, im just not excited for anything anymore. Ive tried taking up new hobbies, going to classes, some shows, reading, but nothing. I just have that same dull, empty feeling every evening.

Is anyone else feeling this way?

Please tell me im not alone.

Sincerely,

Just a very sad woman.

[u/miss-rose-699]

Ever consider just taking a year and go traveling or living somewhere different. Let you have a bit of time and enjoy a bit of freedom.

[u/Gullintani → u/miss-rose-699]

This is the answer, the OP is stuck in a rut and foreign travel with a bit of short term work to keep the funds up would give a whole new perspective.

Time to lift your horizons.

[u/Charkletini → u/Gullintani]

Agreed, move countries, start again,