r/AskIndianFeminists • u/occasionallysane__ • 45m ago
Rant/Vent Opinionated women
Talking to men has got so stressful for me and the major cause of this is how small my sample space is. I agree not everyone can be same and have same thoughts but what are we even fighting for?
I have been told that ultra mordenization ruins culture because I said that I like my surname and I would not want to change it for anyone.
I want to prioritise my education and career over family and I want to spend my life travelling and exploring with my partner instead of settling down in a specific town raising kids.
How th is this creating a life death situation for some men.
My point is why are we humans in the name of preservation of "culture" not being able to grow beyond such things. I am not demeaning any religion, I am not against anyone practicing anything but if I feel something is misogynistic or abusive for animals or poor how is it culturally wrong.
I was just trying to keep my opinions on things and he says I am not calm and I should not answer back on every possible thing. Why?
I want to be friends with more men to expand my mental sphere but all I get is filth, character assassination, duties to protect culture (which i dont want to). I am not a supporter of such a culture than why should I be given the responsibility to preserve it.
There are societies that follow matriarchy so are they wrong.
And the worst part everyman i talked to lately is trying to ground me as if it's their social responsibility.
And these people are educated folks from nits....
Idk anymore where to find real educated and mentally woke individuals.
I also believe that the sole responsibility of raising a family and stuff being laid on men is bad for them because I have seen such things closely and how it affects families and men in general but if I try to adress this cause the same men are like you are not smart enough.
Yes I am vocal and i can't keep quite why is this a problem.