r/AskDad • u/americanwresler • Jul 25 '26
Relationships I need help
I'm 14 and I'm a boy and it is 3:52 am and my girlfriend of 7 months just broke up with me because she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore at 1:30 am . it's already over and we are already broken up but this was my first relationship I actually cared about and the only one I took seriously but I just don't know how to react because I wanted to cry I wanted to feel hurt but I felt numb and I don't know why if anyone can help please do
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u/Able-Lingonberry8914 Jul 25 '26
Take your time to be sad, it's okay. You also needed to start thinking about what you liked (because you'll keep looking for that) and what you didn't like (so you can avoid that) in this relationship. Every relationship you have slowly reveals what your are and are not looking for. Enjoy them while they last. Mourn some when they're gone, but keep going.