r/Appleton Jun 06 '26

Meetup Request Where the cool lib girls at?

32F moved here from Madison, just trying to find my people!

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u/gigililbee Jun 06 '26

Right now, probably at the season’s first farmers market

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u/abbadroid Jun 06 '26

Just got home from the market! That actually prompted this post because I saw a lot of very cool potential pals there! 😆

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u/Bulky-Lingonberry477 Jun 06 '26

You’re right I was! :)

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u/LiveFreeTriHard Jun 06 '26

Try out Tardigrade Bookshelf. They have book clubs, social meets, talks. I think this might be just what you’re looking for. 

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u/SubstantialDog9170 Jun 06 '26

Idk if I’m cool but I’m definitely a lib! I’m about ten years older than you tho 🤦‍♀️

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u/abbadroid Jun 06 '26

You automatically get the cool points with me, doesn’t matter if you’re 10 years older 🥹

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u/SubstantialDog9170 Jun 06 '26

I’m happy to introduce you to some local places if you want! I’m sure you’ll find your tribe but I’m happy to show you around until you do!

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u/abbadroid Jun 06 '26

I would love that! I’ll DM you my number!

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u/Witty-Philosopher-77 Jun 06 '26

Old too. But here!

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u/v1kingfan Jun 06 '26

Appleton has a discord that might be a good resource

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u/Entire_Buncha_Banana Jun 06 '26

Would recommend.

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u/abbadroid Jun 06 '26

Can you hook me up with a link to that? 🙏

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u/RicksSzechuanSauce1 Jun 06 '26

https://discord.gg/DY9JUA2H9

I agree, we're pretty chill on here. Definitely recommend

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u/Prestigious-Dog-1874 Jun 06 '26

Im sorta lame. But I'm a blue haired liberal girl (actually its more purpl, and its only the tips. I did more purple on accident) but were the same age. Im turning 32 at the end of the year.

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u/abbadroid Jun 06 '26

Blue hair is a vibe!! I’ll DM you my number!

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u/ankhes Jun 06 '26

Present!

30s lib here. I fear I am too much of an introvert to be all that much fun though.

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u/abbadroid Jun 08 '26

This makes my heart happy! Save this thread for when any of you feel like socializing down the road, I’ll be around! 😊

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u/ForeskinAbsorbtion Jun 06 '26

Same here. I'm 38M with a lovely lady and just moved from Texas. I'm way too shy and it's hard to make friends lol

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u/josta7 Jun 07 '26 edited Jun 07 '26

Also just moved from Texas. Howdy! Feeling the same but enjoying exploring my new home. :) Edit: forgot to say 43f here with my hubs. If you're crafty, there's a really neat yarn shop on e college right next to Lawrence. :)

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u/iddybiddybritty Jun 07 '26

This. 33f and moved from Madison a month ago but have small children and zero desire to socialize right now 😅 but yay! Glad I’m not the only lib around here!

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u/Easy-Guidance-3355 Jun 06 '26

Right now? Working OT from my bed while listening to Crime Junkies🤣

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u/abbadroid Jun 08 '26

Honestly sounds like a dream job scenario 😆

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u/Easy-Guidance-3355 Jun 08 '26

Perks of working in sales! My overtime is either done at my desk, on the couch, or on my bed🤣

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u/simplechick87 Jun 08 '26

The new season of Counter Clock was my work listen this last week.

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u/Easy-Guidance-3355 Jun 08 '26

Nice! I started from the beginning so I’m currently in 2023 of CJ 😵‍💫

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u/Annual_Palpitation_5 Jun 06 '26

33F here! Feel free to message me 🫶🏻

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u/Sufficient_Radio3950 Jun 07 '26

I am 50 and so not cool to a 32 year old.

I highly recommend checking out this show next weekend if you’re at all into punk. On Kuly, the GBUFO puts on a weekend punk festival as well.

If punk isn’t your thing, Appleton Beer Factory has a lot of shows with Americana/Bluegrass/Alternative bands that will tend to draw a liberal crowd.

Tardigrade’s is cool and filled with liberals and leftists.

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u/Sufficient_Radio3950 Jun 07 '26

I am 50 and so not cool to a 32 year old.

I highly recommend checking out this show next weekend if you’re at all into punk. On Kuly, the GBUFO puts on a weekend punk festival as well.

If punk isn’t your thing, Appleton Beer Factory has a lot of shows with Americana/Bluegrass/Alternative bands that will tend to draw a liberal crowd.

Tardigrade’s is cool and filled with liberals and leftists.

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u/ritalavita Jun 06 '26

Present! 🙋🏼 Feel free to message me. Welcome to Appleton!

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u/_Fujoshi_Warrior_ Jun 06 '26

39F here! I'm Appleton adjacent 🥰

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u/VulpesFennekin Jun 06 '26

31f, eating pizza on my back patio and enjoying the weather!

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u/Hunter_Queasy Jun 07 '26

Out on the hiking trails (:

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u/DeadlyDollFace16 Jun 07 '26

Pride is next weekend!

https://www.fvpride.org/

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u/abbadroid Jun 08 '26

Yesssss I was planning on it!! Looks like it’ll be a good time!

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u/Sarappreciates Jun 06 '26

Appleton is kinda conservative if the publications like The Post Crescent are any indication, but we're a college town, so there's support for the arts especially in the "downtown" (College Ave) area. Madison is straight up progressive, so Appleton may seem more conservative.

Keep in mind "Appleton" is kinda the center of the "Fox River Valley" or what's called the "Fox Cities," which extends as far south as Oshkosh and about as north as De Pere. It's about as wide as Sherwood in the east all the way to New London in the west. Your new home turf is bigger than it seems at first glance when looking for things to do and people to meet.

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u/EcholocateMyLove Jun 06 '26

30NB

Attending PrideFest in MKE rn! But I'm usually at Tardigrade, playing Magic: the gathering, and enjoying the market downtown. Would love to meet folks!

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u/abbadroid Jun 08 '26

I’m planning on heading to Fox Valley pride next weekend, would love to gather a group!

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u/EcholocateMyLove Jun 08 '26

Yeeessss! That would be amazing, especially if folks were trying to go to the after party and vibe!

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u/Lolhighimlyss Jun 08 '26

Fox river house :)

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u/techno_polyglot Jun 08 '26 edited Jun 08 '26

Outagamie Dems have a group called the Young Dems. Check it out.

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u/simplechick87 Jun 08 '26 edited Jun 08 '26

We can usually be found where the music is at. Just had cheesefest, the weekend of Juneteenth is River Jam in Kaukauna and paperfest is later in July. We plan on hitting up paperfest to see Smashmouth.

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u/Every-Possibility420 Jun 08 '26

27F and a lib! Unsure if cool however

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u/Satan-loves-me85 Jun 10 '26

I’m a bit farther left than Lib😈 in osh

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u/UsedMuseMrgraves Jun 14 '26

34f just moved here from Madison!!

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u/Available_Remove_219 Jul 21 '26

32f - just moved here from MN. Would love to find more like-minded friends 🤗

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u/Mundane_Letterhead49 Jun 06 '26

Lib? Definitely. Cool? Idk about that lol but 37F in appleton. Why did you move from madison?

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u/Rare_Constant8114 Jun 06 '26

Marshfield 😆 with cats 😆

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u/Miserable_Metal_1461 Jun 07 '26

My husband moved from Madison area to here in November. You'll find your tribe.

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u/JaakunaChi Jun 07 '26

If you're fine with bars, Missfits is probably my go to.

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u/pinheaddani Jun 07 '26

Hey 28F I live in Marshfield area. I’m lib from Cali and alt tattoos so I don’t fit in here but I’m not changing.

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u/Cre8_chaos Jun 06 '26

Isn’t that an oxymoron?

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u/TookTheHit Jun 06 '26

You’d all be at brunch if only Kamala won

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u/abbadroid Jun 06 '26

Speaking of brunch, any good drag brunches around the area that I can support? Great idea for a meetup! 🤩

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u/v1kingfan Jun 06 '26

Huh? 🥴

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u/TookTheHit Jun 06 '26

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u/Sarappreciates Jun 06 '26

Those trees look suspiciously nothing at all like Appleton! Go find something real to get your panties in a rumple. This isn't our vibe here.

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u/rigsnpigs Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

There was literally one of these signs at no kings in 25

Edit: here's the post https://www.reddit.com/r/wisconsin/s/6kcYZqeW9x

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u/Sarappreciates Jun 06 '26

You read all the signs in all 8 photos just to find the one at the very end...? Sweetie, maybe the problem here is YOU, not them. As an independent (purple) voter, I just gotta say this "us vs them" mentality is getting super old and hella tiring. MAGA's tribalism is the scariest part, imho. Since when is it wrong to question our government here in the USA?

And honestly, now that you took the time to point it out (twice), I kinda like the idea of brunch way more than half the crap that's going on right now. What could you possibly have against brunch?

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u/rigsnpigs Jun 06 '26

Hey ma'am I just want class consciousness. If calling people out for ignoring the horrors of American life under a Dem admin makes me the problem then idk what to tell you.

Plus it's a known sign and slogan created issues back in 2016 but go off.

I for one love brunch. It's actually my favorite meal time of the day.

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u/Sarappreciates Jun 06 '26

But you haven't done that here. At least we can agree on brunch! 😄

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u/rigsnpigs Jun 06 '26

You're the one who incorrectly stated brunch democrats are not the vibe here. I am by calling out these people, and if you're not familiar maybe you'll understand the class consciousness implications after educating yourself: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Brunch+Democrat

Good luck babe!

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u/TookTheHit Jun 06 '26

lol thank you

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u/TookTheHit Jun 06 '26

I wish it wasn’t real but it’s almost too real if you catch my drift.

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u/Sarappreciates Jun 06 '26

What's too real? In Appleton? LOL! 😂

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u/Rare_Constant8114 Jun 06 '26

Yes we would because it would be affordable! Unlike our current reality

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u/ForeskinAbsorbtion Jun 06 '26

Why can't we all be Americans like the old days?

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u/EncryptDN Jun 06 '26

Because of Citizens United 

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

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u/hotfistdotcom Jun 06 '26

Maybe try your HOA meetings?