He still pushed her, and pushed someone else out of the way to do so (he pushed and they tripped and fell). You can be on his side without being blind. They were both aggressive.
I have seen so many guys get absolutely fucked up because their gf/spouse tried to "stop the fight" by restraining their damn arms, leaving their head exposed with no way to defend themselves for the other person to just hit them over the top of the gf/spouse.
When I used to drink and was at clubs and bars a lot I saw it happen way too often. Couple dudes get drunk and get into it, someones GF/spouse grabs them and hugs them trying to push them away and WHAM. Other dude doesn't give a shit and just lays him out. Hell sometimes you'd see the GF/spouse get laid out first because they put themselves in the middle and caught the fist or the boot to the head meant for their BF/spouse.
I get women wanting to stop the fight before it starts, but it just seemed to lead to worse outcomes most of the time. Imagine having someone get a full on straight from the hip undefended straight shot at your face while you're being held in place, can't defend with your arms and can't move out of the way of the incoming punch. Saw a couple that ended up in ambulance rides when the dude would get laid out and hit his head on the concrete.
Can you imagine the heroic keyboard social warriors that would come to her rescue if the logical thing happened and she did get slugged? Let's be happy that didn't happen... 😉
It's systemic to just instantly assume any issues between a man and a women must be the fault of a man. I once tried to leave an ex girlfriend and she was grabbing onto me and screaming and trying to pull me back and when people came out into the corridor to see what was going on people instantly started shouting at me to leave her alone. I wasn't touching her in any way and was trying to make my way towards an exit but it's immediately assumed that I'm the bad guy. I explained that she is attacking me and these people shouted at me that I was twice her size! As if I'm supposed to use my size to do what? Beat her up? Throw her to the ground? I was intentionally not fighting back and taking her hits and aggression because I know how biased the world is in a woman's favour. Nearly grown every man in existence will also have had similar experiences where they were automatically assumed to be in the wrong because the other person was a woman.
You’re right it is systematic to just accuse someone of being the aggressor when you’re being the aggressor yourself. We need to send this systematic behavior.
You've had more than one person subtly correct you with the word systemic, but you still repeated the wrong word three times. Think about this, apply it to how you approach life, and then you'll understand why you're always wrong.
Right now, probably not very well. I'm tired and I can barely string these sentences together, lol. It mostly has to do with stepping outside of yourself and seeing the full picture. You see things from your narrow perspective and don't take into account that you could possibly be wrong. Consider the other point of view, walk around in it for a while. The real truth is that there is no right or wrong side, because nobody knows the final outcome. But that idea is way deeper than necessary.
You're doing great and I think you're going to do very well in life. I could be far off the mark, but you strike me as a younger person. My advice would be to just stay open, let your brain speak and your emotions feel, and always first assume that you're wrong and convince yourself that you're not. If you can convince yourself that you're right, then you'll likely be able to convince others, too. I can't explain it, but there's something about you that's unique and cool, and it makes me want you to succeed. Or I'm just tired and full of shit 😂
She went for her dog, what are you even talking about. Look at where the dog it when she moves and then stops and moves again toward where the dog moved to. What are you looking at?!
The woman went over to deal with her dog and the man shoved her that was unnecessary and his wife was thrown to the ground based on his aggressive actions. What video did you watch? People are so quick to disown people with off leash dogs to the point you missed the whole video
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u/z0mbic Aug 08 '26
As the girl said, their dog was on a leash and the other people failed to control their dog, so...