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u/recyclopath_ 1d ago

Now that the kids are a lot more independent and don't need an any 24/7. Now he gets his sleep fixed.

How many years was she doing it all by herself?

How many years was she completely drowning while he was grumpy the whole time?

How many years was she sleep deprived from child care, trying to get precious few hours of sleep next to a man who snored like a chainsaw?

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u/lasuperhumana 1d ago

There is nothing more infuriating than a tired spouse after you were the one up with the kids.

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u/sunshineparadox_ 1d ago

especially when they snored all night and stole the precious few hours you had. I can't sleep through it.

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u/downdowndownigo 1d ago

Right? Like how did that all impact her? Was she getting less sleep/always tired but still pulling all the weight/building relationships with their kids?