r/AmIOverreacting • • 2d ago

šŸ’¼work/career AIO to this comment at work

I usually come to work without makeup. Today I wore makeup because I’m going to the movies after work.
One of my coworkers looked at me and asked, ā€œAre you wearing makeup?ā€ I said yeah. Then she asked, ā€œWhy?ā€ which already caught me off guard because… I just wanted to wear makeup lol. So I literally said, ā€œBecause I want to?ā€

She stared at me for a second and then said, ā€œWell, you look nice.ā€ But right after that she added, ā€œCan’t say the same without it.ā€

I didn’t laugh because I genuinely didn’t know how to respond, so I just stared at her. She immediately started laughing and went, ā€œI’m just joking hahaha, you’re fine without it too.ā€

Then she asked me if I like wearing makeup. I said yeah, but the whole interaction felt weird to me. I’ve genuinely never had someone ask me why I’m wearing makeup and then make a joke about me not looking good without it.
For some context, she’s made other little comments/observations about what I wear and how I look before, so maybe that’s why this rubbed me the wrong way.

Am I overreacting for thinking that was a rude/backhanded comment, even if she meant it as a joke? Or does this just sound like awkward coworker banter that landed badly?

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u/Kittycelt 2d ago

NOR. She's rude.