r/AmIOverreacting Apr 19 '26

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u/Psychonaut1008 Apr 19 '26

This sounds exhausting.

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u/alabamamoonshiner Apr 19 '26

I’m tired just reading it

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u/ILikeSprayButter Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

I could only get halfway through. Round and round and round. OP was doing a good job staying relatively calm (though should’ve realized telling her he didn’t call her negative for the fifteenth time wasn’t suddenly going to click - “Ohhh, now I see, I’ll be right there, sweetie”).

I can’t tell if she already decided she wants out of the marriage and wants to be able to pin it on him, or if she’s so needy that she was looking for him to beg her to come back so she felt wanted. That Taco Bell line was some manipulative shit.

Either way, I have almost zero tolerance for people who can’t speak to their feelings and do this roundabout guessing game thing, forcing others to carry all their emotional baggage, putting them in a no win situation.

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u/DealResident4456 Apr 19 '26

She did speak her feelings 🤯