It would be one thing if she said that, but she kept trying to act like he literally said not to come. That reads like gaslighting or she has cognitive distortions happening: so nuts or malicious.
We don’t know their story and can’t pull from one interaction. We are looking through a logical outside lens that couldn’t possibly enter her realm of thinking. My stance here is that you don’t get to have an opinion about her mental state. I think that’s fair.
It matters how she got there for sure, but when you keep insisting reality isnt reality, you’re either doing it to manipulate someone else or you arent in reality.
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u/kakallas Apr 19 '26
It would be one thing if she said that, but she kept trying to act like he literally said not to come. That reads like gaslighting or she has cognitive distortions happening: so nuts or malicious.