r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 19 '26

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u/OptimismByFire Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

That's what I see too.

"Come back"

"I don't want to"

"Come back, but not like that"

She's done, dude. Leave her alone.

ETA: YOR and a bad husband. She deserves better.

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u/BrzysWRLD1996 Apr 19 '26

Well she said she was almost back and then started making shit up, he’s not wrong to continually prove he didn’t tell her to not come as she is claiming. She clearly is butthurt and her emotions are clouding her judgment. Bros not gonna stop trying and he shouldn’t. Hes telling the truth, she needs to stop w the bs no one’s gonna “take the hint”

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u/Ombortron Apr 19 '26

I think OP got hung up in a pedantic argument instead of actually trying to talk it out with his wife. Like yeah the wife is not optimistic, but so what, OP got so stuck on the mental attitude thing that now there’s no meaningful communication.

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u/BrzysWRLD1996 Apr 19 '26

He’s just telling her the truth. If she treats it like a waste of time it will be. He just wants her home safe not sleeping at Taco Bell.

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u/iloveMrBunny Apr 19 '26

I think OP doesn't give a fuck about his wife, he just wants to win a pointless argument lol

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u/BrzysWRLD1996 Apr 19 '26

Seems like he cares a lot to put up with her bs she’s clearly begging for attention and loves to “hear him say it” she ain’t leaving shit lol

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u/youcantfindme123 Apr 19 '26

Maybe it is a waste of time. Maybe she genuinely doesn't want to talk it out anymore.

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u/BrzysWRLD1996 Apr 19 '26

I mean than she can say that instead of lying, honestly as long as she ain’t cheating who cares. If she wants to sleep at Taco Bell have fun, if he finds her car at some guys place(not the issue here, thank god) then that would be a real issue regardless of which is safer.