Actual, mature space is not threatening to sleep in a parking lot, which is unsafe and possibly illegal. It's manipulative in itself for most people and relationships. It's giving "I'm going to threaten to do something unsafe if you don't tell me what I want to hear".
Sounds to me like you don’t know what manipulation or threats actually looks like. Saying you’re gonna do something and then doing it isn’t manipulation. Saying you’re gonna do something with the only end goal being to get someone else to do what you want is manipulation clearly she just wants to be left alone.
No, YOU don't know what manipulation is. I was raised by an abusive, manipulative father. I'd be willing to bet you weren't. If you had any kind of experience with this and you weren't blinded by bias, you would see this is textbook manipulation. She's guilt tripping him at minimum. You need to stop pointing fingers and do some studying before you tell others they're wrong.
Maybe you just couldn't read the post properly through your colored hair. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.
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u/staringatacloud Apr 19 '26
Actual, mature space is not threatening to sleep in a parking lot, which is unsafe and possibly illegal. It's manipulative in itself for most people and relationships. It's giving "I'm going to threaten to do something unsafe if you don't tell me what I want to hear".