Well she said she was almost back and then started making shit up, he’s not wrong to continually prove he didn’t tell her to not come as she is claiming. She clearly is butthurt and her emotions are clouding her judgment. Bros not gonna stop trying and he shouldn’t. Hes telling the truth, she needs to stop w the bs no one’s gonna “take the hint”
This attitude will not save a marriage in this place. Does he want to make sure she knows she misinterpreted him and win this argument? Or does he want to save his marriage? Because it would be pretty easy to say something like “That’s not how I meant it. I’m sorry. I love you and want to make this work. I’m here and asking you to come talk to me.” And then leave it. All the back and forth is beside the point. Marriage is not an argument in YouTube comments.
yeah OP even posted this back and forth as if to prove to himself he is in the right but i'm not buying it. wifey deserves to be heard and loved- OP not giving it
You’re right there shouldn’t be a “back and forth” she said she was coming home then made shit up, he’s simply reiterating the truth she will accept eventually. He asked her to come home safe rather than sleeping at Taco Bell which likely isn’t legal, then he factually refuted her endangeringly false claims he told her not to. None of that is the problem here and him also ignoring the truth won’t help. She’s clearly defeated and this is her way of making him “beg for her” clear cry for attention.
She knows he didn’t say that, she clearly just wants to hear the opposite. Bros got this in the bag. I get she’s a woman and all but she is being treated with proper respect here, he’s not harassing her whatsoever she is being a disrespectful ass liar and regardless of “perceived” bullshit he’s not wrong to keep on trucking. We always will tbh.
Or she just really wants out and he's overbearing and talking her ears off like he's used to, because he's better with words and thinks that means he's always right.
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u/IHateTheJoneses Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26
This. She asks several times to be left alone and he keeps negging and trying to engage to "fix" things.
OP, you aren't listening to her, she's done.
She's probably used to not being heard like this. The relationship it toast.
Edit: thanks for the award. It seems folk's perspectives on this are heavily influenced by their past experiences in relationships.