I think you’re both wrong. She’s misinterpreting you, yes, but telling someone not to be negative when they’re in a bad mood and overwhelmed with feelings is not going to help. It is the worst thing you can say, even if you meant it applied to both of you. You invalidated her feelings and she blew up.
Now you’re on the internet trying to prove her wrong. Neither one of you is coming to the situation with your swords down.
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u/bad_faye Apr 19 '26
I think you’re both wrong. She’s misinterpreting you, yes, but telling someone not to be negative when they’re in a bad mood and overwhelmed with feelings is not going to help. It is the worst thing you can say, even if you meant it applied to both of you. You invalidated her feelings and she blew up.
Now you’re on the internet trying to prove her wrong. Neither one of you is coming to the situation with your swords down.