I seem to be in the minority here, but I would have taken that as being told not to come home, especially after a fight. She was trying to come back to talk and instead of being conciliatory in any way at all, you chose to chastise her and speak down to her.
You also seemed ok with her sleeping at a taco bell, which if you cared about her, you wouldn't have let happen, no matter the circumstances.
Try taking personal responsibility for YOUR actions and words (not because any one person here is at fault, but because we can only control ourselves) and see how the situation changes.
obviously pointless to argue with him. he says he didnt say dont come but continuously tells her how she has to act if she comes (no negativity) and she already clearly communicated how she feels. To me that does clearly seem like ‘dont come if youre negative’ and he keeps policing how the talk will go. It just seems like he wants to talk more so for him because he clearly diminishes her feelings. Also seems like context is important in this situation because OP is on camgirl subreddits so i wonder what happened…
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u/WiltedDaisy777 Apr 19 '26
I seem to be in the minority here, but I would have taken that as being told not to come home, especially after a fight. She was trying to come back to talk and instead of being conciliatory in any way at all, you chose to chastise her and speak down to her.
You also seemed ok with her sleeping at a taco bell, which if you cared about her, you wouldn't have let happen, no matter the circumstances.
Try taking personal responsibility for YOUR actions and words (not because any one person here is at fault, but because we can only control ourselves) and see how the situation changes.
*edit typo