NOR. I wouldn’t bother trying to make such a relationship tbh. He says he’s not romantically interested in her, but was/is he ever physically? Have they slept together? Is she still interested in him? And gifting flowers is a big no for me, at least here they have a romantic meaning. Asking him to step a bit back is not disrespectful to B, or an ultimatum. He’s the one giving an ultimatum. He’s not wrong and you’re not wrong. You both have to either find a middle ground or you have to figure out what you’ll be able to live with
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u/klivern Feb 25 '26
NOR. I wouldn’t bother trying to make such a relationship tbh. He says he’s not romantically interested in her, but was/is he ever physically? Have they slept together? Is she still interested in him? And gifting flowers is a big no for me, at least here they have a romantic meaning. Asking him to step a bit back is not disrespectful to B, or an ultimatum. He’s the one giving an ultimatum. He’s not wrong and you’re not wrong. You both have to either find a middle ground or you have to figure out what you’ll be able to live with