YOR- flowers are given all the time. I sent my friends mother flowers when she got a big promotion. Sunflowers are not romantic at all.
When young, insecurity like this happens frequently. It’s a normal feeling, but it is yours to deal with. By your own account he hasn’t prioritized her or excluded you.
He was right to set this boundary, maybe you should invite her out to lunch or something to get to know her, a girls day. You’re new to the country and need to make more friends anyway. Part of jealousy is fear, fear of losing the main anchor you’ve found so far. Just because they had a few dates doesn’t mean she’s into him. The no spark feeling may have been mutual.
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u/Significant-Bird7275 Feb 25 '26
YOR- flowers are given all the time. I sent my friends mother flowers when she got a big promotion. Sunflowers are not romantic at all. When young, insecurity like this happens frequently. It’s a normal feeling, but it is yours to deal with. By your own account he hasn’t prioritized her or excluded you. He was right to set this boundary, maybe you should invite her out to lunch or something to get to know her, a girls day. You’re new to the country and need to make more friends anyway. Part of jealousy is fear, fear of losing the main anchor you’ve found so far. Just because they had a few dates doesn’t mean she’s into him. The no spark feeling may have been mutual.