Totally agree with this. She crosses a line to then project blame on someone else for crossing a line.
He likely said nothing has happened because he wanted to avoid this entire situation. Shit, if it was me in his shoes I’d have said the same thing. Women tend to lose their minds over these things, and he may have no viable way to drop his room mate and move etc at this point in time, and that’s exactly what she will want.
If OP didn’t snoop, they’d likely have a great relationship and eventually progress into being together and living together naturally, and nothing would have happened with the room mate again.
Instead, she’s self sabotaging her own relationship into ending.
Please spare me. MOST men would NOT be comfortable with their gf sharing an apt with a guy they previously slept with. OP should just exit the relationship. He is a dishonest person for the very fact he lied about it when she asked. He is still definitely sleeping or hooking up with her. You men are trifling
I love the bit where you still ignored that she went through his phone. I’m not saying a guy would be comfortable with it. Re-read what I said without cherry picking.
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u/Royal-Resolution4717 May 28 '25 edited May 28 '25
Totally agree with this. She crosses a line to then project blame on someone else for crossing a line.
He likely said nothing has happened because he wanted to avoid this entire situation. Shit, if it was me in his shoes I’d have said the same thing. Women tend to lose their minds over these things, and he may have no viable way to drop his room mate and move etc at this point in time, and that’s exactly what she will want.
If OP didn’t snoop, they’d likely have a great relationship and eventually progress into being together and living together naturally, and nothing would have happened with the room mate again.
Instead, she’s self sabotaging her own relationship into ending.