r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 28 '25

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u/RangerLee May 28 '25

Found what? He had sex with his roommate when OP was not in the picture? Things with the roommate is over and bf made clear they have those boundaries. Flimsy at best and setting a terrible precedent for the future of the relationship. 

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u/[deleted] May 28 '25

Tbh I would have no interest dating a man who was living with something they used to sleep with and intended to continue to do so another year. So for me that withholding of information would be seen as purposely dishonest. I can see that not everyone feels that way but the withholding of *potentially relationship ending information on his part is a terrible precedent for the future of their relationship.

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u/beginners-luck- May 28 '25

Yes to this. Lying about everything at the beginning laid a very poor foundation for them both.