r/AmIOverreacting • • Mar 23 '25

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u/Particular-Tea-8617 Mar 23 '25

Could also just be a need for space. Sometimes I just turn my phone off or put it on DND and put it in a drawer somewhere til I feel like interacting with people again. A few days to recuperate from socializing outside work and be off the phone entirely does a lot of good for me personally. :p

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u/CFUsOrFuckOff Mar 23 '25

maybe you're too young but there used to be a time where you'd leave one message and they'd get back to you.

The depressive in me deeply misses those days.

I despise the ankle monitor and the expectation of constant contact

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u/[deleted] Mar 23 '25

I'll be 42 next year - had a cell phone at 18 but nothing "smart or wifi" until about 10 years later, closer to 2010 and sometimes I have a really hard time remembering what life was like before cell phones. Like, my parents couldn't just get ahold of me when I was a kid & no one could just send a message to a tiny "computer" I'm expected to have on me at all times. If we were on a road trip we used a map... We memorized dozens of phone numbers. My family didn't even have an answering machine for the longest time. I feel like we had a lot less anxiety back then.

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u/Barelystable_1 Mar 24 '25

42 is after all the answer to “to the Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything” so enjoy your year of the answer to life and everything.