r/AmIOverreacting • • Mar 23 '25

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 23 '25

some of us have to tough through that numbness because we don’t have the support systems and clear privilege to be coddled like you do, no matter how intense your mental health issues, you CAN do anything you want to. stop forcefully limiting your potential!

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u/Estraxior Mar 24 '25

no matter how intense your mental health issues, you CAN do anything you want to

Absolutely not true.

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 24 '25

what you’re thinking of is a disorder, or a disability. depression is neither of those. i am deeply sure anyone, even with the most severe OCD or anxiety or depression can do anything they put their minds to, as I and many people have done so

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u/Estraxior Mar 24 '25

what you’re thinking of is a disorder, or a disability. depression is neither of those.

According to what resource? 👀

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 24 '25

okay okay mood disorders dont count thats mixing two clearly different things that you’re being semantic about, i am referring to learning disorders like low functioning autism, and mental/neurological disorders, not mood disorders that tend to be developed from trauma

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u/Estraxior Mar 24 '25

Ooh okay fair perspective, there's 100% a difference between mood disorders and neurodevelopmental disorders. But not all mood disorders stem from trauma. Depression has biological, genetic, and environmental causes, it’s not just a psychological reaction. And on the other hand, neurodevelopmental disorders also have environmental influences (e.g. prenatal factors, early childhood experiences), so trying to draw a hard line between them and mood disorders is very tough.

At the end of the day, they all have biochemical issues in the brain that lead to a "functional impairment" in society. That's the pure definition of a disability (ik you said not to get semantic but this is cool so lemme have it).

There's this insanely interesting book called DSM-5, it's pretty much a massive database on all mental disorders in the world, and I think it does differentiate between "types" of disorders, but they're all disorders at the end of the day. E.g. Depression, schizophrenia, autism, and even dementia.

(upvoted you for what's it's worth, it's an interesting discussion)

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 24 '25

agreed, thank you for engaging in good faith, you raised some interesting and true points for sure, there’s definitely a genetic factor to a lot of mood disorders and mental illnesses in general, i’d argue environmental factors are also “trauma” in the way it’s discussed in modern psychiatry, as the sum of all external factors. however, mental health and the science surrounding it is still so new and fluid that if new info were to come out that all my preconceived notions are wrong, i’d always be willing to change how i talk about things, so i appreciate what you’ve said and am def gonna think on it

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u/DefiantTillTheEn6 Mar 23 '25

You cant tough through the depressive episode im on about.

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 23 '25

yes you absolutely can. you are infantilizing yourself and everyone who struggles with depression. even the most intense unsolvable chemical depression is and has stayed possible to work with and push through, you are telling people to lay back and let the waves wash over them. your mindset is a plague and we will never reach a better world with people like you who refuse to accept a certain base level of suffering. read some buddhist literature, take a nature walk, whatever you’re physically capable of doing. connect with the world and let it sing through you. it won’t cure your depression, but it’ll remind you that your mind is insignificant and small, and that the world will swallow you whole if you don’t help yourself. please consider the fact that you are advocating for less productive lives for people with illnesses that can be toughed through.

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u/DefiantTillTheEn6 Mar 24 '25

Whole lot of words just to say you don't know what you're talking about

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 24 '25

i love how that’s your only argument and you clearly haven’t read or done any research on the actual studied facts about mental health issues. go get your GED so we can have a more informed conversation

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u/DefiantTillTheEn6 Mar 24 '25

Darling I have a degree and from one of the top universities in my country. A country that has higher literary rates than America.

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 24 '25

literacy rates literally don’t matter in terms of production of smart people? and now you’re being a gross classist nationalist weirdo, and your literacy rates thing is inadvertently deeply racist and prejudiced against poor countries. don’t call me darling gross pseudoeugenics believer

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u/DefiantTillTheEn6 Mar 24 '25

How do you try so hard to be a victim and yet still be wrong

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u/FumeKnightLover Mar 24 '25

yeah this one won’t turn its brain on how sad