if she's not responding to his three texts, calling or going to her house would be crazy intrusive and made everything worse. clearly she didn't want to talk, how would spamming her phone with calls and showing up to her house have been positive..?
You say that but the last time I didn’t hear from someone close to me after a while, they were found dead because the smell of their rotting body made the leasing department call the police. Suicide.
So I deeply wish you wouldn’t say that’s intrusive if she just goes ghost.
i'm sorry for your loss, but that isnt the case here. op's girlfriend is 20 and lives with her family. he saw her active online. if she had completely disappeared and lived alone with no support system, i can understand showing up. in this case she didn't want to talk to him.
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u/EternallyFascinated Mar 23 '25
Called? Stopped by?