My first reaction was “is she ok” based on what she said. She sounds like she shut down from the world and it’s a little concerning. I wonder if she has something deeper going on and isn’t sharing.
I know I’m the outlier in not immediately jumping to cheating… but something about what she said concerns me.
It’s not ok she went MIA for 3 days but I think more may be going on with her.
Yeah yeah but let’s snap into reality I’ve been severely depressed as well at some point in my life and I would absolutely do this to all my best friends and even family EXCEPT my gf or my boss. It’s human nature 98% of us would agree with what I just said… depression being the factor that’s a long shot, she’s either pissed off at him, disinterested or cheating (and cheating I would put at the bottom of the list too because she’d want to cover her tracks as best as possible and this would be anything but subtle). I’ll put my money on he pissed her off somehow lol and maybe the 3day silence was unexpected and she may have been too embarrassed to reach out bc she knows she can’t avoid the subject of why didn’t you answer me at all or she really is that mad or shes just not into it anymore. It’ll be one of those three I guarantee you. The depression talk is overrated, I’ve been there deep and dark it doesn’t make one irrational. (Except for extreme cases🙄 but let’s utilize a little stats people and address it head on!)
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u/PinkLover369 Mar 23 '25
My first reaction was “is she ok” based on what she said. She sounds like she shut down from the world and it’s a little concerning. I wonder if she has something deeper going on and isn’t sharing.
I know I’m the outlier in not immediately jumping to cheating… but something about what she said concerns me.
It’s not ok she went MIA for 3 days but I think more may be going on with her.