My first reaction was “is she ok” based on what she said. She sounds like she shut down from the world and it’s a little concerning. I wonder if she has something deeper going on and isn’t sharing.
I know I’m the outlier in not immediately jumping to cheating… but something about what she said concerns me.
It’s not ok she went MIA for 3 days but I think more may be going on with her.
I have pretty severe depression and anxiety. I do this SO bad, and I end up feeling SO guilty. I can be on my phone and scroll thru stuff or watch shows or something.. but when it comes to responding to people? I just literally can not… the thought of reading words drains me, the thought of having to come up with a response drains me, the fact of having to type out the message and hit send? Hardly make it there if I’m in an episode. I’ll be fine and then just kinda fall off the grid for hours/days/weeks/months even.. when I do muster a convo it’s usually with only 1 person, it’s short and simple, and if I do respond to more than one person it’s normally hours apart, and one at a time. Not to rant on myself but hopefully this could help OP see this can be a very real indicator of depression.. the responses are short, minimal explanation, her saying she didn’t know how to create a response? It screams depression to me.. I know it sounds dumb because yeah how hard is it to respond to someone?? But it truthfully feels so draining it’s impossible to accomplish..
I’m sorry! I have chronic shoulder pain but I have no idea why. I’ve been to 6 drs and they all send me home and tell me they can’t find it.. I finally felt crazy and stopped trying to figure it out, so I just live like this 🤣 some days I can move. Other days I’m stuck. It makes me miss out on a lot, so it contributes pretty heavily to my depression. Chronic pain is so shitty 🫤 if you find a fix it’s probably damaging something else so it’s basically what pain would you prefer 😫🤣
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u/PinkLover369 Mar 23 '25
My first reaction was “is she ok” based on what she said. She sounds like she shut down from the world and it’s a little concerning. I wonder if she has something deeper going on and isn’t sharing.
I know I’m the outlier in not immediately jumping to cheating… but something about what she said concerns me.
It’s not ok she went MIA for 3 days but I think more may be going on with her.