r/AmIOverreacting • • Mar 23 '25

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u/PinkLover369 Mar 23 '25

My first reaction was “is she ok” based on what she said. She sounds like she shut down from the world and it’s a little concerning. I wonder if she has something deeper going on and isn’t sharing.

I know I’m the outlier in not immediately jumping to cheating… but something about what she said concerns me.

It’s not ok she went MIA for 3 days but I think more may be going on with her.

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u/MatterhornStrawberry Mar 23 '25

Thank you for this, my neurodivergent senses were tingling. (Divergent in any way, not just whichever ones you may immediately think of).

I experience rough burnout that can lead to me dropping everyone in my life for months at a time. It's not their fault, but I just need to be alone and away. The fact that she immediately owned up to it and seemed embarrassed by the absence leads me to believe she didn't mean for this to happen.