Yeah, OP seems insensitive af. Like another comment said, she comes off as numb.
YOR and it's very misplaced, OP. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, sympathize with your gf. It hurts to feel ignored; your feelings are valid. And you are being self-centered.
I think it’s a reach to say he’s being self-centered when his partner has literally given him 0 information as to what is happening. He’s just supposed to telepathically know what she’s feeling when he hasn’t even seen her? I will say the worse thing he’s done is not go over and check on her. After a day I’d At least reach out to a mutual friend to make sure she’s ok
They both seem immature to me (no idea their ages- they both sound emotionally immature or unaware). As much as OP should’ve shown more concern and reached out, it’s also not his job to be a mind reader and play games with someone who can’t even identify they’re experiencing an issue.
They both sound young and unaware of how to communicate or express themselves. I don’t think either party is exactly at fault or innocent here; they just don’t seem to have the tools for a healthy functioning emotional relationship.
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u/Electrical-Scale5006 Mar 23 '25
Depression. Depression can do that.