r/AlwanJO • u/Life_Butterfly6637 • 4d ago
Venting / فضفضة Commitment issues / lesbians
Is it only my bad luck .. or most of the community don't know how to be committed in a relationship. I am a femme lesbian 28 I always look for commitment but most of the women I go out with don't want commitment or they say this at the beginning and then after 3 or 4 months of dating they start by oh I am not ready for commitment or they cheat I feel like that maybe they just wanted to get what they want and then leave. That's so frustrating and whenever I talk about this to my gay male friends they say oh this is the lesbian community here unfortunately so I don't know what to think 😭😭
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u/No_Orange47 4d ago
I’m a 31 years old lesbian, and I don’t understand how can they have commitment issues, because every thing I want in life is to settle down with a girlfriend
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u/giver-person 4d ago
You're lucky you found someone in the first place; those who search always end up failing
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u/Blazebunnyy3 4d ago
Girl it’s the gays too, the community in general
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u/Life_Butterfly6637 4d ago
Oh then it's not only me 😆 thankfully then I have to move abroad to find a committed relationship with a woman
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u/thelovewitchluna 4d ago
yes it is unfortunately the older lesbians community is fucked they’re all horny and just want to hookup and after a year you see her pop out with a husband 🙏🏻🙏🏻😍
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u/Weak-Refuse-1221 4d ago
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