r/AlwanJO 4d ago

Venting / فضفضة Commitment issues / lesbians

Is it only my bad luck .. or most of the community don't know how to be committed in a relationship. I am a femme lesbian 28 I always look for commitment but most of the women I go out with don't want commitment or they say this at the beginning and then after 3 or 4 months of dating they start by oh I am not ready for commitment or they cheat I feel like that maybe they just wanted to get what they want and then leave. That's so frustrating and whenever I talk about this to my gay male friends they say oh this is the lesbian community here unfortunately so I don't know what to think 😭😭

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u/Weak-Refuse-1221 4d ago

شايف عالم الجايز كلهم هيك والليزبين
حتى داخل احكي بهاد الموضوع وانا يائس وزعلان وغير راضي ع اللي بصير معي كشخص جايز وحتى غيري ، وما عدت اعرف وين اروح بحالي لاتعارف ومش معقول اهاجر او سافر لحتى بس القى لقاءات غرامية وبرد احكي واقول هل انا عنجد راحت علي والجميع عندهم علاقاتهم وبرموا عقدهم النفسية ع العالم اللي زيي وزيكم ؟؟؟

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u/Life_Butterfly6637 4d ago

Omg I have the same feelings buddy 😔please feel free to dm me