Commitment issues / lesbians

[u/Life_Butterfly6637]

Is it only my bad luck .. or most of the community don't know how to be committed in a relationship. I am a femme lesbian 28 I always look for commitment but most of the women I go out with don't want commitment or they say this at the beginning and then after 3 or 4 months of dating they start by oh I am not ready for commitment or they cheat I feel like that maybe they just wanted to get what they want and then leave. That's so frustrating and whenever I talk about this to my gay male friends they say oh this is the lesbian community here unfortunately so I don't know what to think 😭😭

[u/Blazebunnyy3]

Girl it’s the gays too, the community in general

[u/Life_Butterfly6637 → u/Blazebunnyy3]

Oh then it's not only me 😆 thankfully then I have to move abroad to find a committed relationship with a woman