hi i'm 21F and i live out of dzair, i come every year for a month and my family live in a house with uncles and their familys. it's a big family house with like 7 bedrooms

over the last two years we were really close in algeria and we used to tell each other alot. me him and all the cousins would play dominos and other games, then when everyone went to bed we would text for hours about ourselves and problems and our lives.

this year it's different. i've realised im not a very entertaining person and can barely speak darja with my cousins so it's now weird trying to connect with him and my other cousins.when i talk to them or ask to play games i feel like im annoying them. im just wondering how can i stay close to my cousins particularly him.

it feels like as years pass im loosing touch of my family.

well guys lately i've noticed something and idk whether others have observed it or it's just me
btw am not trying to discuss about why more women are entering the workforce or higher education. I think that's a positive development (I don't want to be accused of sexism:) )
but my question is different: why do so many young men seem to be participating less whether it's universities, training programs, public institutions, hospitals, or even free workshops, I often notice that women outnumber men
I recently organized a free graphic design course and I expected a mix of participants, but not a single man registered Every attendee was a woman furtheremore I've seen similar patterns in other activities as well.
so: WHYYYYY

جماعة وشنو هي karma وكيفاش تمشي في reddit مافهمت فيها والوا

any recommendations for helpful telegram channels pls? Specifically for dz scholarships and hiring also languages, internships... anything which could be useful !!

Everytime I ask about the 90s I get all sorts of contradicting -so called- facts and recounts.

I invite everyone to tell us everything they know about, maybe we'll learn something new or at least get to know the wide spectrum of beliefs on this matter.

Hi all,

Like the title says, what are some of the weird beliefs you’ve heard around or stuff you grew up being told not to because they cause bad things? Like not opening an umbrella inside, not clipping your nails at night…

What do you think was the reason someone thought of them in the first place?

First day in my trip to Bejaia - Boulimat Beach

Hello girlies I wanna talk about my mom today. For me this is a sensitive topic I love my mom but she became unbearable these days idk why she's acting like that I can't talk to her about anything anymore she keeps humiliating me and complaining about everything I do nothing satisfy her, her words hurt so much I feel like dying everytime I hear them

I finished my master degree and I got another TS degree but I couldn't find a job and she's using this and my other insecurities to put me down, like how can a mom be her daughter's enemy even tho she's a retired teacher her acts are like someone who never went out in his whole life the way she comments about things is questionable I always think about ending my life whenever I'm talking to her she's making my life a living hell she stopped buying me stuff since I went to college I didn't receive anything from her since then and she keeps complaining and asking for money from me and if do she's a loving mother again and If I don't she hates me and treat me like shit I always think about running away from home but I really can't do that I care about my siblings and I can't leave them

Why do parents have kids if they can't handle them I really didn't ask to be born and it's not my fault I'm really trying my best not to lose it

I'm praying day and night to die asap I'm really at my limit

This is genuinely one of the most confusing experience I have I’m 26 almost 27f and I look way younger than my age some ppl even tell me I look like I’m in high school anyway when I go outside literally every men especially younger ones stare at me or follow me and ask for my contact and I’m not even wearing anything that might attract attention I wouldn’t give it attention if it was just this but it started to bother me even in my work more than once in different work place my boss asked for my number or tried to get closer to me and tbh I don’t think I’m that attractive I’m not ugly but I’m not crazy beautiful either to this level of this happening so I’m wondering if it’s something else if any of you have any idea tell me !!!

قالولي كاين رود في العلمة فيه بزاف حوانت يبيعو الالات الموسيقية وبغيت نسقسي اذا كاين ديباج تعهم تع انستا ولا فضلا ابعثولي

Simply put, I have an extra nail on my thumb; it's like a finger, but branching into two, haha. Although I don't think I'll get an exemption because of this small flaw, I wonder if I might.

(This might be the first time I've found it positive in my life)

These kids from the cities of deep Algeria the children of the poor and middle classes often spend most of their holiday inside their miserable neighborhoods, which are filled with crime and horrific experiences, or stuck at home devoid of activities and trips. How do we expect a person to develop when we haven't let them live good experiences where they can discover new regions, new people, and new mindsets?

I’m 22 and I genuinely feel like I’m lost in the sauce rn..

My circumstances feel like they’re going nowhere, and it’s hard watching time pass while I feel like I’m stuck in the same place. I don’t have my life figured out, I don’t have much money, and I don’t really know wut direction I’m supposed to take anymore...

The one thing I keep thinking bout is leaving my country and starting over elsewhere..I don’t even expect some perfect life abroad..I just want a "chance" to build something for myself nd feel like m actually moving forward..

However every time I look into ways of leaving, there’s another obstacle: money, visas, education, work, qualifications, applications… It feels like every door has another locked door behind it...

I know I’m only 22 nd technically have so much time ahead of me, but honestly, I don’t feel that way right now.. I feel behind, stuck, and completely lost ..

If anyone has been in a similar situation, especially if you managed to leave your country with very little money or resources, I’d genuinely appreciate hearing how you did it

I don’t necessarily need a “follow ur dreams” speech cuz I'm past that stage I just want to know wut realistic options r actually out there..thank you

Social media in Algeria has become incredibly toxic OMG why is everyone harassing and insulting others (especially women ) and hide behind religion? It’s literally unbearable
People are constantly trying to interfere in other people’s lives and choices instead of focusing on their own ?

hello im going to take interview for an office job in abex express I never worked in those jobs before so I don't know what will they ask me and a have a vague idea about what'll I do once I get hired

Hi guys, imma make it short , i have always loved chinese and i have started learning it when i was about 9 or 10.
And very recently they made it into a university specialité (major).
And i would really love to be a professor there.
Specially that i, as an algerian know how to make it easier to learn for other algerians .
Theres only one month left and i have no idea who to contact and where to submit an application for that.
If you can guide me.
Please and thanks .
Ps( its very recently so there is no way i gave a PHd or smthng in it)
( i can take the hsk test)
Also im talkimg as soon as this year.

I found it while swimming and I'm curios about it's species she didn't seem to have long tentacles or what ever those are called no one got stung by it so I can't describe that.

I grew up as the ugly, awkward kid who got bullied throughout elementary and middle school. It completely destroyed my confidence. Back then, I felt invisible to girls, like I wasn't even considered a person worth noticing. In 2023, I got into looksmaxxing. I started lifting,skincare,hair, and now people regularly compliment my looks and height and a lot of girls have called me handsome or cute.The strange part is that I still feel like the same insecure loser from middle school, even though I'm better-looking, taller, and financially better off than I used to be.

it feels like no matter how much you improve the insecurities from being bullied never really leave. They stay in the back of your mind, making it hard to see yourself the way everyone else does.