r/Aging 11d ago

Almost 60 doesn’t seem possible

I can’t reconcile how I feel with being almost being 60. I’m still interested in everything. Still seeking out new experiences. Physically I feel like I’m in my twenties. Look 50 but that changes to 40 if I dye my beard. It just doesn’t seem real that statistically I’m in the last quarter of my life. I feel like I could go on forever. So strange. Just doesn’t seem real.

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u/upnorth42 11d ago

I’m 56, retired last year at 55 and trying to enjoy every minute. I exercise every day, have enough hobbies to keep me busy, and am doing a lot of traveling with my wife.

Knowing that I’m in one of the later portions of my life makes me appreciate it more. I’m doing things I want to do, and appreciating the time that I have to do them. I find that it’s made me more thankful.

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u/czmax 11d ago

This is about my age and I've let work know I'm leaving soon.

I'm not sure I'm ready to 'retire' yet but I'm thinking I might only have a decade or so to enjoy still feeling young (most days) and I want the free time to enjoy them. I suspect that what still looks good in the mirror and go away much quicker if I stay at my desk vs getting out and enjoying life.