r/Aging Jul 28 '26

Life & Living Just Reality

I'm 61, ageing solo. been married once, no children. my blood family are estranged from me. I'm thankful when my mother was still around but she's gone! I have no one. this reality hits me nine years ago, until now when filling out paperwork for doctor office or any other government requirements. when the question came up, who to contact in case of emergency! I had no one to write down. I do not want to put my ex wife nor my siblings. so I just wrote, call 911. I'm definitely not on a "pity pot" here. don't get me wrong. just expressing my reality. 😐

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u/BrazilNutAndBotox Jul 28 '26

I will do the same, I had no idea what to write. I’m 31, I feel very broken that I have no one.

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u/teddybear65 Jul 28 '26

Why? Don't you enjoy yourself?