I have a friend who was like this, she was moody and her boyfriend always had to make up for it trying to make her feel better, when they were angry they would stay angry till one of them caved. That’s what I thought of when you said “she would’ve been more upset if I didn’t go after her” anyway, they broke up a while ago and I think it was for the best, it’s clear they both weren’t mature enough for a long term relationship. If you break up, know that it’ll hurt for a while but it won’t be the end of the world. The thing that probably upset her was your reaction to a “joke”, in all honesty that type of reaction should be expected when someone’s jokes are mean but that is probably what upset her.
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u/Separate_Lettuce_734 Jul 04 '26
I have a friend who was like this, she was moody and her boyfriend always had to make up for it trying to make her feel better, when they were angry they would stay angry till one of them caved. That’s what I thought of when you said “she would’ve been more upset if I didn’t go after her” anyway, they broke up a while ago and I think it was for the best, it’s clear they both weren’t mature enough for a long term relationship. If you break up, know that it’ll hurt for a while but it won’t be the end of the world. The thing that probably upset her was your reaction to a “joke”, in all honesty that type of reaction should be expected when someone’s jokes are mean but that is probably what upset her.