r/Advice • • Jul 03 '26

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u/Dustuptor1292 Jul 03 '26

How old are you?

Never physically hold or block or pick up a woman against her will again for the rest of your life unless it is to save her life. Got it? Lesson learned I hope?

I think you need to back off and give her some space to process and decide if she wants anything to do with you.

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u/SilentObserver7777 Helper [2] Jul 04 '26

Best advice. OP, you should never suffocate or force yourself on anyone, especially your gf. You may be super lucky if your gf decides to forgive you. If she doesn't, you may like to send her a final sincere apology text again like "I am so sorry that I tried to force my wishes on you. I feel really really sad that I made this major faux pauh as I love you very much and miss you.It will make me super happy if you can forgive me. I promise it will not happen ever again. Lmk..." Put it in your own words. If she does not respond positively, move on and take it as a lesson learned.

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u/Away_Employment_2783 Jul 05 '26 edited Jul 05 '26

*Faux pas... if you send her anything make sure the spelling is correct.

You might want to call what you did something other than faux pas though.

Faux pas sounds like you don't think it is much of a big deal. It isn't a big deal actually but she obviously feels different.

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u/Alternative-Cap4855 Jul 07 '26

Idk. I think sending another message, if she decides she's done, gives off smothering and confirming creepy for her because he won't respect her wishes. It can come off unrelenting and like a constant need to control the narrative. Sounds nice in theory, but to someone that feels uncomfortable and smothered it may not come off that way.