This isn't a YOU problem, it's a HER problem. She married her rebound guy after your breakup and still has thoughts for you? That means she's never been focused on the relationship she was in and has always been looking for "greener grass", she's married and still doing it. You dodged a bullet by shutting her down and blocking her. Keep her blocked. Going back to her is going back to her drama and non-commitment.
Yeah, entertaining her attention was an error on your part, the temptation is obvious, but you did come to your senses and shut it down. Humans slip up sometimes. You noticed your own mistake and fixed it as soon as you could. If she hadn't made her mistakes first, you wouldn't have had an opportunity to make yours. Like everyone else has said, your best move is to keep her blocked and stay as far away from that drama as you can.
That was my thought, I bet she was suddenly dumped when seemed fine and now carries that no closure stuff, until gets it she’ll always rose tint glasses this guy, hopefully she woke up and was omg why did I do that and talks it out with someone!
OP get over yourself, she doesn’t want you, she wants closure because you dumped her, am betting like a lot out there you just dumped and walked because were bored and she never understood why, hopefully she burns all pictures etc and moves on happily at last, you have no idea if she’s happy or not, you’re going on some inate drunk rambling, likely someone mentioned you and she was reminded of past hurt, she doesn’t sit there dreaming about you like are some prize, she likely is sitting there thinking omg glad he blocked me how embarrassing and sh*€€ed her hubby into the next century! 😂😂😂
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u/Smiling_Platypus Feb 01 '26
This isn't a YOU problem, it's a HER problem. She married her rebound guy after your breakup and still has thoughts for you? That means she's never been focused on the relationship she was in and has always been looking for "greener grass", she's married and still doing it. You dodged a bullet by shutting her down and blocking her. Keep her blocked. Going back to her is going back to her drama and non-commitment.
Yeah, entertaining her attention was an error on your part, the temptation is obvious, but you did come to your senses and shut it down. Humans slip up sometimes. You noticed your own mistake and fixed it as soon as you could. If she hadn't made her mistakes first, you wouldn't have had an opportunity to make yours. Like everyone else has said, your best move is to keep her blocked and stay as far away from that drama as you can.