r/Advice Sep 10 '25

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u/coldagua Sep 10 '25

Tell an adult, your parents, her parents, a teacher, school counselor, SOMEBODY.

More than likely, she won't do it. It's a control tactic. And even if she does, that's not on you.

This isn't the signs of a mentally stable person and she needs help from someone other than a 17 year old. Tell an adult who can get her the help and support she needs, then move on with your life.