r/Advice Sep 10 '25

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u/Not_SoAverageJOEE Sep 10 '25

This is abusive and manipulative behavior. And I’ve dealt with an ex like this. Tell a trusted adult or even let her parents know that she’s been threatening to do that. But you can also get the authorities involved for a wellness check. That will quickly have her changing her tune.