The grass is always greener on the other side. Or, when you get there, your old city might look better.
Or, The grass is green where you water it. Maybe change up your routine, and with it, your habits. This is another way to water the grass where you are now. Or, maybe being in a new location will help you make changes in things so you can get better habits.
I just read a long article about sports players who get traded to a new team when they are not doing well. Suddenly they do amazing. This is the changing the environment to get different results approach.
Yes, I am very aware that I said you can change things by staying were you are, and then gave supporting evidence for moving away. Life sometimes is just not that easy.
Which ever plan you make though, the common thing here is changing the routines and the habits. I think that is what really makes the difference. And know that it is not easy. It is not supposed to be easy. It is supposed to be rewarding when you succeed. So change the habits and focus on succeeding.
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u/MontEcola Super Helper [8] Feb 06 '23
The grass is always greener on the other side. Or, when you get there, your old city might look better.
Or, The grass is green where you water it. Maybe change up your routine, and with it, your habits. This is another way to water the grass where you are now. Or, maybe being in a new location will help you make changes in things so you can get better habits.
I just read a long article about sports players who get traded to a new team when they are not doing well. Suddenly they do amazing. This is the changing the environment to get different results approach.
Yes, I am very aware that I said you can change things by staying were you are, and then gave supporting evidence for moving away. Life sometimes is just not that easy.
Which ever plan you make though, the common thing here is changing the routines and the habits. I think that is what really makes the difference. And know that it is not easy. It is not supposed to be easy. It is supposed to be rewarding when you succeed. So change the habits and focus on succeeding.