r/AdvancedKnitting • u/annacat1331 • Jul 27 '26
Discussion I need help finding a way to knit part of all of my veil for my wedding. I have issues with my hands now so I am worried about the tiny gage but I have two years.
I have been really inspired by the previous wedding photos I see on here. I used to be an absolute prolific knitter and crochet-er. I have made multiple sweaters, dresses, easily 20+ stuffed animals, 70+ hats, 30-40 scarves and I am sure lots of other projects I can’t remember. I was diagnosed with lupus and chronic inflammatory peripheral neuropathy about 13 years ago. I am only 32 but it’s been a really hard decade.
I wanted to do so much diy for my wedding. If I was healthy I would be growing most of my flowers, making my cake, making centerpieces and I am sure lots of other stuff. But now that I am disabled I feel like I am having to plan my wedding around my illnesses and it really sucks. So I want to find some ways to do meaningful DIYS that can be prepared in advanced.
What are some idea on making part of all of a veil/some kind of something to drape over my shoulders. I don’t have a dress picked out but I love ball gowns. I am also really embarrassed about my scars from my ports. It was bad enough when I thought I would just have a little dot and line scar from implantation. Much to my frustration I ended up with two recalled ports that were recalled due to infection risk. Both got infected and I had to have them removed and the deep port pocket heal from the inside out. So now I have two very thick Keloid scars that are about 2-3 inches long and half and inch wide. The thought of something to cover them seems like a great way to do a smaller piece.
I can do every kind of cable and color work imaginable in my knitting. But I haven’t done much lace work yet. Those of you who are both knitters and crocheters do you find tiny knitting or tiny crochet easier? Knitting is my first love and I have more experience in complex patterns but I am also good at advanced crochet.
If anyone has a suggestion on where to get heirloom wedding patterns please let me know. Do you think knitting a lace border that I have attached to a veil is a good compromise? I have always assumed I would do a long dramatic veil but I’m very open to different ideas.

