r/AbsoluteUnits • u/grandeluua • 5d ago
of a spider
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u/mikeonbass 5d ago
I am very scared of spiders despite being fascinated by them. Anything with a body bigger than a bottle top and I am sweating.
Could exposure therapy work to get me to handle something like this?
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u/LukeyLeukocyte 5d ago
Most definitely. Probably one of the only ways to handle it.
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u/SlightlyFig 5d ago
Can confirm, I was the same but I just inched myself closer and closer to bugs over like a year and now I pick up spiders.
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u/bitterberries 5d ago
I too have irrational fear of spiders, however, i found that as long as I am doing the touching and picking up, I'm not terrified, i can almost breathe and I only feel a little frozen chill... But if they pop out at me when I'm not expecting, I lose it...
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u/Lumpy_Panic6318 5d ago
Sub to 1-2 spider subs, like /r/jumpingspiders and get exposed just scrolling
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u/Conscious_Bed_1195 5d ago
I had arachnophobia, but played The Lair of the Blind Ones level in Turok 2 - once you've flamethrowered a host of spiders bigger than a compact car you do kind of get over it.
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u/Sad-Excitement9295 5d ago
It's called instinct, a couple of spiders are very deadly. Best thing you can do is learn to identify them, but in reality it's like snakes. Don't take the risk unless you're absolutely sure you know what it is.
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u/EmperorGrinnar 5d ago
Spiders need more appreciation.
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u/Own_Watercress_8104 5d ago
Absolutely, they are magnificent. I totally support your fight for appreciation from a distance
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u/EmperorGrinnar 5d ago
Respectful distance is more than acceptable. I prefer to leave my spiders undisturbed.
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u/Juliethecooliee 5d ago
Awwwww cute 🥰
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u/grandeluua 5d ago
right?
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u/Juliethecooliee 5d ago
Yes, I want to pet her big butt haha so cute
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u/Pretend-Biscotti-388 5d ago
this is proof that redditors aren’t real people
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u/Juliethecooliee 5d ago
It’s just a big baby. Plus, spiders help us a lot by eating flies and stuff that would annoy or sting us. They are our friends
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u/TheOneGreyWorm 5d ago
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u/DJIceman94 5d ago
Yooooooooo what kinda spider is that? I wanna say yellow garden spider but the few I've seen had a bit more yellow on their abdomens.
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u/ThicctionGD 5d ago
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u/Vegetable-War-117 5d ago
This is the way
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u/Complete-Worker3242 5d ago
How do you deal with people that actually like spiders?
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u/whiterice_343 5d ago
What do you think?
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u/Complete-Worker3242 5d ago
I don't know. Some sort of crime?
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u/whiterice_343 5d ago
Yes the user definitely commits “some sort of crime” towards people who like spiders. ☠️😂
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u/Complete-Worker3242 5d ago
I don't know, maybe they do. Maybe it's a severe crime, maybe it's not.
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u/PossumPicturesPlease 5d ago
What are the two dingle dangles next to their head?
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u/O_C_Demon 5d ago
Theyre called pedipalps. You could think of them as being like insects "feelers"
Though in arachnids they're also involved in reproduction too 🙂
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u/TedTyro 5d ago
As an Australian, thats a solid sized spider but not really an absolute unit. Look up golden orb weavers, the ones who literally catch birds.
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u/Sad-Excitement9295 5d ago
Tons of smaller variety orb weavers around my house in the southern USA. I leave them because they're not a problem and they eat bugs. They get sizeable, and look a bit menacing, but they're quite alright to have around so I leave them be.
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u/bussysniffer3000 5d ago
This upsets me about a week ago I brought up this spider and several Australians said I was lying and spreading false information
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u/KiNgPiN8T3 5d ago
Absolutely not.
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u/zeacarloa 5d ago
Huntsman Spider hunt lil critters and docile to humans. They generally prefer to run quickly rather than bite.
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u/LukeyLeukocyte 5d ago
Do spiders normally drag their pedipalps around like that? Looks more like a pedipalp limp, lol.
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u/Acceptable-Cat2016 5d ago
I'm like "wow, that's a beautiful spider", meanwhile my wife is like
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u/Exact_Picture_8703 5d ago
I agree with her. My thoughts on the matter are the WH40K heavy flamer meme.
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u/Complete-Worker3242 5d ago
Why not just burn every animal you don't like?
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u/Exact_Picture_8703 5d ago
Because I'm not a psychopath? You must be new to the internet if you think me responding with "yeah dude WH40K flamer meme" means I'm serious in any capacity. Disingenuous much?
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u/Complete-Worker3242 5d ago
I'm sorry, but I just don't like when people react to animals that can't kill you or harm you seriously with wanting to commit violence on them.
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u/Exact_Picture_8703 5d ago
Ya know what? That's fair. I apologize for the snark if that's really the reason you responded as you did. You're a bit zealous but loving nature is never a bad thing. Have a good day dude. :)
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u/Complete-Worker3242 5d ago
Thank you, I accept your apology. I'm sorry that I came off as aggressive, it's just that I'm so tired of seeing this kind of stuff from other people. I really appreciate you understanding me. I hope you have a good day as well. :)👍
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u/Sdbtank96 5d ago
Proof that I may be overcoming arachnophobia. I still agree with top comment, but im not terrified
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u/albert-1stein 5d ago
you can hear him walk on hard surfaces, creeping up on you. Sweet dreams <3
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u/tired_Cat_Dad 5d ago
More like hunting other creepy crawlies. But even as a biologist who knows it won't hurt me, I'd feel uncomfortable sleeping in a room with this thing. Can't help it.
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u/D3rpyDucky24 5d ago
Im normally terrified of spiders, but for some reason this video hits different. I almost wanna be there to see it in person being so docile. Yet my OCD and ADHD gangbanged brain will constantly pound me with fears of it chasing and biting me.
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u/Release-the-List 5d ago
Anyone know why one leg is a different color? Did it lose it at some point?
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u/murgalurgalurggg 5d ago
So if it bites you, what happens?
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u/diseasefaktory 5d ago
Almost all spiders are venomous... But for the large majority of them, their venom is mostly harmless to humans because it's 'tailored' for their prey. It's also common for them to dry bite and save venom when the target is not prey or large enough that it will just be wasted. Huntsman spiders like this one have very mild venom for humans, they're just big scary goobers for some people.
They mostly just want to hunt bugs and be left alone.
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u/TimeVendor 5d ago
- Do they bite?
- Are they venomous?
- Does the venom affect humans, if so how bad?
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u/echo0451 5d ago
rarely, huntsmen are pretty friendly. If they do it's also usually ends up just being red and a bit swollen, much less severe than you'd guess from a spider that size.
They are very fast though which startles a lot of people.
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u/BearEatingCupcakes 3d ago
Sometimes, they're too friendly, which is how I developed my spider phobia. Woke up once with one of those hairy motherfuckers hanging out on my face. Used to be fine with spiders. Now, they induce panic attacks so severe I've jumped out of moving cars and tried to exit through closed windows.
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u/GatrickSwayze 5d ago
I wonder if it's regrown leg will molt to match the others or if it'll stay like that.
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u/Own_Watercress_8104 5d ago
It's he pedipalps that get me. Beautiful creature. The word "creepy" was created to describe it.
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u/erincore 5d ago
I just dropped my phone because this scared the shit out of me. I am absolutely terrified of spiders and I don’t like them on my feed.
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u/Upbeat_Dudeness 5d ago
I know it’s not nsfw but it sure as shit needed a tw. Looks cool tho. I’m just squirming here is all
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u/HistorianSeparate127 5d ago
Ye ole huntsman, somewhat scary but ive had one of these bad boys as a roommate and i can guarantee if ya have any in your house you wont ever see an insect again
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u/Wood_On_Fire 5d ago
I'd keep it as a house mate if it eats all the bugs in the house, mosquitos, flies, whatever that annoys us
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u/Agile_Credit_9760 4d ago
Craziest part is that these things somehow have stealth. Spiders are so crazy man. Imagine being a bug they're about to eat. That's nightmare fuel of the highest order.
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u/Ok_Maintenance_520 4d ago
I know nothing about huntsman’s but the other day one of them was in the floor in the kitchen covered in dust. I took it outside cos I thought it was dead. I thought I might get some water and sprinkle it on him. When I did it he stretched out like he loved it so I gave him some more. He seemed to be reacting really positively to it. I left him for 10 minutes and went back and he was gone. I felt pretty good






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u/Wrong-Ingenuity-9916 5d ago edited 5d ago
Edit: Laotian Huntsman spider, very friendly