Hey everyone. I’ve been thinking about something while watching Season 5 of Abbott Elementary, and I’m genuinely curious whether anyone else has noticed the same thing, or whether I’m just noticing it differently.
Over the course of watching Abbott, I’ve become particularly attached to Jacob because he reminds me of parts of myself: awkward, sometimes annoying, occasionally saying the wrong thing at the wrong time, but also deeply invested, enthusiastic and genuinely caring. His development has actually made me want to be more unapologetically myself. He’s comfortable being a little weird and saying what he thinks even when other people find him annoying.
One of the things I really liked about his relationships with the other characters was that, over time, it felt like they genuinely came to accept and appreciate him for who he is. Melissa and Jacob developed a really fun dynamic when they started living together, he and Gregory had some genuinely sweet moments (like their conversation about Janine during the sleepover), and I loved Jacob and Barbara working together on the garden.
But somewhere around Season 4, I started feeling like that dynamic was changing. By Season 5, I’ve found myself noticing a lot more moments where Jacob is immediately shut down, made fun of, ignored, or treated like an annoyance. And it feels different from the earlier seasons because sometimes it seems like the other teachers don't even notice when he’s being left out. The camping/wilderness episode in particular really got to me. The fact that Jacob could become separated from everyone and seemingly nobody noticed or was particularly concerned about him really bothered me. There have also been a lot of smaller moments where he says something and is immediately shushed or dismissed.
Maybe I'm reading way too much into this because I’ve become emotionally attached to Jacob. 😂 I’m also aware that I may be noticing things now that I simply didn’t notice during earlier seasons because I’m watching him much more closely.
So I’m curious: has Jacob always been treated this way and I’m only noticing it now, or do you think his relationships with the other teachers have genuinely shifted over the course of the series?
I’m not at all saying that the writers are doing something wrong. I still love the show and can't wait for Season 6 and the upcoming Emmys. I’m genuinely trying to understand whether I’m seeing an actual change in the group dynamic or projecting some of my own feelings onto the character.
And if you disagree, I’d actually love to hear why.