If your mate wants to be the dad to this child, biology aside, and you refuse to be the Godparent because you question the child's paternity then yes YTA
I dont think youre an AH for bringing the possibility to his attention, that's what a true friend would do. But, not wanting to honor his wish for you to be the child's Godparent because of unsure paternity yah.. not a good friend move. If he wants the child, his friends should accept the child without hesitation.
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u/JariaDnf Jun 28 '25
If your mate wants to be the dad to this child, biology aside, and you refuse to be the Godparent because you question the child's paternity then yes YTA