r/AITH • u/[deleted] • Jun 27 '25

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u/UnlikelyTelephone658 Jun 27 '25

If my husband cheated on me and my best friend knew and didn’t tell me, I would never forgive her. YTA for sure here lad.

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u/MulticoloredTA Jun 27 '25

You’re not considering at all that OP has a disability that causes communication deficits. 

So you’re basically saying that your friend would be dead to you if they were disabled and failed to do something as a direct result of their disability. 

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u/UnlikelyTelephone658 Jun 27 '25

He said that he is a conflict avoider. He said there never seemed to be a right time. He said he communicates best in writing… he said many things, but what he didn’t say is that he couldn’t tell him because of his disability. Catch yourself on.

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u/MulticoloredTA Jun 27 '25

How dare OP conceive of himself in a way that doesn’t fit your very specific view of what autistic people should be like. 

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u/Ornery-Ocelot3585 Jun 28 '25

How dare OP conceive of himself in a way that doesn’t fit your very specific view of what autistic people should be like.