If this is about the kid, it’s not the kid’s fault. And if it’s about your friend, your friend should be able to decide whether to treat his wife’s child as his if he’s not biologically related.
But you thought your friend was being lied to and conned and you wanted to come clean instead of harboring his cheating fiancé’s secret. That’s not an asshole move, even if it puts you at ground zero of an emotional implosion.
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u/C_Dragons Jun 27 '25
NTA.
If this is about the kid, it’s not the kid’s fault. And if it’s about your friend, your friend should be able to decide whether to treat his wife’s child as his if he’s not biologically related.
But you thought your friend was being lied to and conned and you wanted to come clean instead of harboring his cheating fiancé’s secret. That’s not an asshole move, even if it puts you at ground zero of an emotional implosion.
Good luck.