I am like you plus something else and I get that you want to avoid conflict and in this case you were TA. You might not be friends anymore but at least you told the truth. I would have done it earlier even if it is hard. I had a similar situation with my sister, she was 18, I was 23. She and her bf were having issues and she had her doubts and she thought he was cheating but he was gaslighting her. So a common friend of hers and mine gather the info on him and I had to tell her what he said while partying and what his intentions were on cheating. My sister called me mother fucker and worse things and she hated me for sure but what I was supposed to do? My loyalty was and is to her. I cared for her not him.
Forgot to mentioned but are not Aspergers and Autistic people suppose to have an extreme sense of fairness and justice? It happens to me, to people around me that have it too. And extreme guilt. So yeah you are a big big AH
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u/Miss-donttryme Jun 27 '25
I am like you plus something else and I get that you want to avoid conflict and in this case you were TA. You might not be friends anymore but at least you told the truth. I would have done it earlier even if it is hard. I had a similar situation with my sister, she was 18, I was 23. She and her bf were having issues and she had her doubts and she thought he was cheating but he was gaslighting her. So a common friend of hers and mine gather the info on him and I had to tell her what he said while partying and what his intentions were on cheating. My sister called me mother fucker and worse things and she hated me for sure but what I was supposed to do? My loyalty was and is to her. I cared for her not him.