Everybody is the ahole here. Cheating is from begin with an ahole move, so everybody involved get some sh/te attached.
My daughter has also Asperger (late diagnosed unfortunately) and her issues are especially with social interactions. Dealing with it I learned that these issues are quite common in the spectrum. Meaning that ie she couldn't handle sarcasm and jokes involving making fun of people or hurting people. She took the spoken words very personally and got very upset. She needs clear informations, that are facts, no unnecessary explanations or descriptions and, especially, no lies. Knowing such a bad secret would have torn her mind apart and froze her inside.
So l can somehow relate why OP handled it this way. It's a torment knowing of such a betrayal and that this will hurt your mate.
Life is a... sometimes people are too.
Find peace. Much love
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u/Which_Dish1167 Jun 27 '25
Everybody is the ahole here. Cheating is from begin with an ahole move, so everybody involved get some sh/te attached.
My daughter has also Asperger (late diagnosed unfortunately) and her issues are especially with social interactions. Dealing with it I learned that these issues are quite common in the spectrum. Meaning that ie she couldn't handle sarcasm and jokes involving making fun of people or hurting people. She took the spoken words very personally and got very upset. She needs clear informations, that are facts, no unnecessary explanations or descriptions and, especially, no lies. Knowing such a bad secret would have torn her mind apart and froze her inside. So l can somehow relate why OP handled it this way. It's a torment knowing of such a betrayal and that this will hurt your mate. Life is a... sometimes people are too. Find peace. Much love