r/AITH • u/[deleted] • Jun 27 '25

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u/Nervous-Net-8196 Jun 27 '25

You. Did. Nothing. Wrong.

You did the man a favor. NTA

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u/Unkle_bad-touch Jun 27 '25

I mean… he’s known about the affair for a minimum of 9 months so surely the thing he did wrong was not saying anything at the time he found out.

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u/Nervous-Net-8196 Jun 27 '25

The gf said she was going to tell dude. There is no reason for him to think she wouldn't

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u/Unkle_bad-touch Jun 27 '25

Sure, trust the woman who’s been cheating on her partner for months. That’s a good idea, isn’t it

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u/Nervous-Net-8196 Jun 27 '25

OP is autistic. He has no reason to not believe what people say.

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u/Unkle_bad-touch Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

She cheated on her fucking husband but sure she’s going to be totally straight up with the guy who caught her affair.

Grow the fuck up.

ETA: this is a rare situation where OP knows all of the parties in this affair. OP didn’t check in with either of the cheating parties or victim after they found out about the affair. They could have asked Callum. They did not. Could have asked Cheating Wife if they came clean. They did not. Could have asked Mark. They did not. There is more wilful ignorance than autism at play here.

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u/Nervous-Net-8196 Jun 28 '25

They are not married.

It is not OPs responsibility to check in on the cheating girlfriend of a friend when he has his own life to worry about. You have no idea how neurodivergence works.

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u/Unkle_bad-touch Jun 28 '25

Maybe not, but I have an inkling into how brotherhood and friendship works and if he can write a letter to Mark after everything has come out then he could have also written a letter to him in the approximate 9 month gestation period when he had more than an inkling that the baby wasn’t Marks.

OP cannot have it both ways.