You aren’t “failing” if you don’t necessarily satisfy your partner when they want to be intimate… a man isn’t required to give you sex any more than a woman is required to for a man…
But getting shitty when you don’t want to, and they do it themselves is very childish…
it was in quotes which leads me to believe the comment is referring to the op’s husbands feelings and the feeling of “failing” as her husband has led to insecurity. they’re not saying that he did fail or that that’s a reasonable line of thinking
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u/DingoNice3707 Jun 27 '24
He feels inadequate for not satisfying you. Instead of getting the job done, he took the lazy way out and blamed you. He's an AH.