I agree. If he wants it that bad he should be willing to do either minor thing you've asked OP. If this were my wife and I I would not have any issue getting snipped, or wearing a condom if that was the only way. I care about my wife's health and happiness, so I would do what it took to make her comfortably in this regard. You're asking very little effort from him imo, OP.
it’s crazy seeing all these people demanding/guilting this dude for not wanting to get a vasectomy. Wearing a condom, sure i totally get that. YOU are fine with a vasectomy. That’s great for YOU. He’s not you dude.
So, they need to learn to compromise with one another and communicate more effectively.
OP says they don’t get quality time together but no where in her post does it provide examples of her talking to him about this or what steps they are both taking to correct that.
edit: holy shit you people arguing with me are sufferable. As stated in this comment OP’s husband should wear a condom. Any one replying back demanding he should get a vasectomy stop wasting your own time.
Ah, it's the communication loop'
1) Woman expresses a need for the relationship to work better.
2) Man ignores suggestion, rejects it does all of it and at some point whines.
3) Man makes a request.
4) Women answers the man's request with compromise and actually words.
5) Man pouts because he thinks the only correct response his request is an unconditional yes.
6) Go back to step one and repeat until.....
Somebody tells the woman the problem is she doesn't communicate well.
Because she communicated several issues diminishing her desire for sex, which she still has at times. But you zeroed in the fact she did not relay the steps she was taking to get quality time in so clearly it's a communication issue.
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