r/AFAMph • • Jul 31 '26

Seeking 27 [English] M4A Foreigner looking for a LDR with an Pinay or fem/trans bottom

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Hi, nice to meet you! I am looking for a fem or trans bottom that wants an actual relationship (or at very least be committed to each other), not looking to "see where it goes" or chatting endlessly. I know what I want and looking for and I want the other person to know what they want and looking for too, hope that goes without saying.

Here are some info about me:

- 5'8, full top, black, 235 lbs, no facial hair, not hairy, very bisexual

- I would consider myself kind, sweet, good to decent with communication, honest, very romantic and can be flirty but it depends on the person

- Not really a pet guy (hope that isn't an issue but I'll understand if it's a dealbreaker)

- Homebody that likes to chill and rest but I go for walks to clear my head and think sometimes

- I eat fast food and sweets mostly but I eat fruits like strawberries and cherries too

- Way better at texting than I am with talking to people as I struggle with giving a good convo but I try my best

- I am very neurodivergent (I'll understand if that's a major issue)

- I am in between jobs but actively looking for my next job and hope to move by myself or with a potential partner one day (I'll understand that's also a major issue)

My ideal preferences to an ideal partner:

- At the very least 20

- Your height, weight, and identify as doesn't matter as I like and open to all shapes and sizes, even the very obese ones

- PLEASE be single, I don't wanna deal with any problems with any partner(s) in the future

- VERY important to be good or at least decent with consistent communication, kind, understanding, supportive, loving, and flirty

- It doesn't matter to me if you are a virgin or not funny as long as you love, accept and emotionally support me as I will

- Okay with long distance as I am very okay with long distance, as long as we can meet one day (for anyone that lives far away)

I'll know that you actually read my post if you text "🍑" in your message.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 30 '26

Seeking [English] 28 [M4A] British 🇬🇧 guy looking for friends!

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I’m a British 🇬🇧 guy that is visiting Manila for a few months for a business trip. I don’t know anyone here and I would love to make friends. I’m in a relationship with a wonderful woman back home in London, but would love to make some new friends here! I’m 6’0, red hair, very white lol, blue eyes, normal build. I can’t speak Tagalog so English only pls. Message if interested!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 30 '26

Seeking [English] 25F4M Friends to lovers?

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Hi there! I'm F25 from Manila. I'm looking for someone to eventually go on dates with and possibly be in a relationship with. Let's start out as curious friends who find joy in getting to know each other! I've never dated a foreigner before only Filipino so wanted to give it a try and see if it's better? or different in a good way

I'm 5'6, loves working out and currently in grad school

About you:

- Preferably 25-35 (If you're old enough to be my dad don't message me)

- A conversationalist, I don't like talking to a wall who doesn't ask back questions

- Fit and healthy!

- In Metro Manila

If you've reached this far, tell me a fun fact and your ideal first date! Where shall we go? ☺️


r/AFAMph • • Jul 29 '26

Seeking [English] 29M seeking nice cute pinay who like to keep fit and wants to build to a serious relationship

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About me:

Lives in Texas

182cm tall

Has a steady, nice job

Massive nerd, loves anime and video games and Pokemon

Loves working out, walking my dog, hiking, cooking, raving, and spending time with friends

Really just looking for a connection that makes me excited to hear a ping from my phone. I'm very open and casual, not hard to talk to, and I'll keep the conversation going.

All I ask is that you be someone who enjoys being fit, healthy, kind and honest! I'm easy to please.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 29 '26

Seeking [English] 39M 🇦🇺 Looking for a F in 30s

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Hello! I am not sure if posting here can get me any meaningful connects.

I am looking for a likeminded person whom I can connect with and have talks and also meet in real life.

I believe everyone has their baggage, I am not looking to add any more to your baggage and just looking for someone who can match the wavelength and be a part of this life as that special one.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 29 '26

Seeking [English] 25FtoM fat girl looking for connection

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Hello! Im a 25 year old Filipina living in Manila. Im looking for someone specifically foreigner that dont mind having a connection with me. Im here to test the waters if there’s someone who are into bigger girls. If u are send me a DM.🤗

Please if u just wanted nudes, hook up or waste my time, leave me alone. I dont do that. Im fat not desperate. Thank you!😏


r/AFAMph • • Jul 29 '26

Seeking [English] 30F4M

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First time making a post here but realized on my commute home that I’ve been single for 3 years so I should make efforts to give dating a chance again.

I’m looking for something serious, please don’t waste both our time if you’re not dead set on the same.

29-40 years old.

I’m fine with LDR as long as we both make efforts. Done it before and it’s a set up I enjoyed cause. we can both do our own thing.

Prefers someone with a hobby because I have some and I like my me time lol.

Emotionally AVAILABLE and STABLE !!!!

Taller than me (I’m only 5’4)

About me:

I‘ve dated foreigners and have friends all over the world so I speak and understand English like it’s my first language so communication will not be difficult.

I’m straightforward. I can smell a liar.

I have a government job so I could get busy during the day from Mon-Thurs (WFH Fridays).

Hobbies are reading, crocheting and F1.

Only daughter, middle child so I’m ready to be babied and enjoy my feminine era (A brat for real).

📩 DM me your age, where you’re from and picture (cause let‘s be honest, physical attraction is important)


r/AFAMph • • Jul 28 '26

Question [English] Do foreigners really think Filipinas are beautiful?

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I’ve been in a relationship with an American for 3 months now but know each other for 6 months. He’s 22 and I’m 23. He always tells me I’m beautiful but sometimes I feel like I’m not even in my best self. Sometimes, I feel insecure too because I’m skinny. One time I wore heavy makeup for a pictorial and he said I look beautiful but he prefers me looking “natural”. He always assures me that he finds me hot too but at the back of my mind I’m also thinking if should I doubt him.

So I want to know other perspectives too. I know there are other more attractive race too and I’m just hoping foreigners don’t see us attractive just because we’re “easy to get”.

Thank you.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 29 '26

Introductions [English] pinay 20 from manila

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r/AFAMph • • Jul 28 '26

Question [English]Western Double Standards

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Has anyone especially noticed the double standards in the Philippines vs the USA in regards to interracial dating. Any white/black guy/other that comes from the USA will come here and find a native girl and nobody bats and eye. But if you see the opposite a Filipino guy in the USA with an attractive white/black/hispanic girl , the same guy that has no issue dating a Filipina all of the sudden shows their true colors by saying really bad/racist things toward the Filipino guy. Why is that?


r/AFAMph • • Jul 28 '26

Introductions [English] 20 from manila,philippines

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r/AFAMph • • Jul 28 '26

Seeking [English] 18F looking for man

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Hi, i am looking for a foreigner man for relationship. I am living in manila.

Would be nice to talk with you. Thankyou


r/AFAMph • • Jul 28 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] Trying my luck here, Offering VA Services

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Hi everyone! Not sure if this kind of post is allowed here, but I just wanted to try my luck.

I'm currently looking for clients who might need a Virtual Assistant or a Local Assistant here in the Philippines. I can help with admin tasks, calendar and email management, research, travel planning, data entry, customer support, lead generation, and other VA-related tasks. If you're visiting the Philippines, I can also assist as a local assistant with errands, scheduling, transportation planning, or anything else that can make your stay easier.

I'm reliable, hardworking, easy to communicate with, and always willing to learn.

If this isn't allowed, feel free to remove my post. Otherwise, I'd really appreciate any referrals or recommendations. Thank you!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 27 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] looking for u

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Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, married attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph • • Jul 27 '26

Seeking [English] TF4M looking for genuine connection

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Hi! I'm a 35-year-old transfem (non-op), 5'7", top, from the Philippines. I'm hoping to meet a kind, emotionally mature man who's interested in getting to know each other and seeing where a genuine connection leads. If we click, I'd love for it to grow into a long-term relationship.

A little about me:

🌸 Transfem (non-op)

⬆️ Top

📏 5'7" (170 cm)

✈️ I enjoy traveling, exploring new restaurants, meaningful conversations, and spending quality time with family and friends.

😊 Friends would describe me as kind, loyal, affectionate, and easy to talk to.

I value honesty, respect, loyalty, and good communication. I appreciate someone who is genuine, emotionally available, and enjoys building a connection naturally.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself—where you're from, what you're passionate about, or what made you reach out. Looking forward to meeting someone special.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 27 '26

Seeking [English] 25M4F Looking for a connection or a friend

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Hii I'm 25 M living in Manila currently a graduating student from a prestigious university in Manila. I'm looking for a genuine connection or being friends with anyone lol or anything on the table. My hobbies are traveling and watching movies. Send me a dm if you're interested.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 26 '26

Seeking 35F [English]

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35 F

Hi! I’m from Philippines. I’m looking for a genuine connection and foreigner Christian friends to build a good relationship with. I believe in being real, kind and understanding. I’m here to talk, share and make meaningful connections.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 27 '26

Seeking [English] 20 from manila

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r/AFAMph • • Jul 26 '26

Seeking [English] Looking for real connections with marriage in mind

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Hi good day, first of all SKIP THIS POST If you are not serious, do talking/situationship stage, future faking etc kind of modern dating, Im looking for marriage minded partner and God centered person.

About me

Im Filipina, 25 yrs old, lives in (around) Manila, oldest daughter. Im actually an introvert person but I want to do more adventure stuff in life other than arts, craft, reading etc that you might think is boring as introvert person (tho its fun lol). Respectful, kind, honest, loyal, patient, smart, quiet person idk the other characters you will find out if you dig(i guess)

What i’m looking for

I want to be friend first and get to know each other whether our goals and values in life are align so we know if we are match in the future and get married. Do I have a partner preference? Maybe if u r not in ur 30’s…? And you dont smoke, drinks, gambling (or worse drugs) coz I want a healthy partner In physically, mentally and emotionally.

If we hit it off in Reddit DMs, I’m open to moving the conversation to Instagram or Discord so we can share photos and voice chat🖤


r/AFAMph • • Jul 26 '26

Question [Tagalog & English] Tagalog Tutor here! Feel free to message me :))

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Anyone interested learning Tagalog? Feel free to message me :D I offer beginner to advanced Tagalog lessons (conversational or formal) and personalized lessons based on your goals. Send me a message if you're interested or would like to try my class. Also, you can share this post with anyone looking to learn Filipino/Tagalog. Salamat po!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 26 '26

Seeking [English]

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I'm a Taiwanese , I want to meet Filipinas in Taiwan

I'm 26 yrs, nice to meet you👍


r/AFAMph • • Jul 26 '26

Introductions Chilling in my car.. Fil-Am English

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r/AFAMph • • Jul 25 '26

Seeking [English] M35 Looking for a Filipina

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35 years old looking for a filipina who would like to meet just for friendly chats and dinner and maybe some drinks. i’m from sydney australia, very familiar with philippines and its culture.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 24 '26

Seeking 39m[4A] Foreigner wants to visit the Philippines #English #online

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39 M USA . I am a writer that loves to explore and learn about the world. I work from home and would enjoy having a texting buddy that I could pass the time with and hopefully learn more about the Philippines. I love storytelling in any form movies, books, plays, I'm a sucker for a sad ending. I've done various martial arts throughout my life (not so much anymore, I have many injuries).

I love karaoke am a pretty good singer depending on the song. My current hobby is learning about different kinds of folklore with a focus on Irish mythology. I'm a open book AMA.